Reborn babies touching or scary?

reborn doll babytrendwatcherDo you know the concept reborn baby? I did not until today, but after some research I know more. Reborn babies are made ​​by a small group of artists, called reborners, worldwide. Like Beatrice Landeghem in Belgium, and Marga van Koert-Sante in the Netherlands. They make baby dolls that scary enough, resemble real babies, eyes, eyelashes and hair, I can’t tell the difference. Even the weight seems to be correct. Many layers of paint are applied with specific characteristics on a vinyl head.

They are made for avid collectors who search the internet and fairs and sometimes treat these dolls as their own. Collected by treating parents and grandparents that can’t let go the image of a little baby and for parents who have lost theirs… In that case, the doll has been made into a replica of their passed child. Critics wonder whether these dolls can help in the grieving process. The fact is, that these dolls have such a lifelike appearance that they are saved by others from parked cars, they are mistaken for real babies.

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Why cool fathers carry babies

babydragende-mannenI was at a seminar by trend watcher Li Edelkoort and she noted that she sees more and more fathers who carry their babies! This fits entirely in the image of solidarity. Because for those who did not know: the time of the individual has passed. Children nowadays are mothered and fathered, men will even become more attractive. This confirms what I see for some time in our market. We get more and more material supplied showing cheerful looking fathers with a child in baby carrier. Nowadays, fathers are not ashamed to go out with their baby and if they go out, they rather use their baby carrier than a stroller, it looks a bit more cool. A father with a baby carrier shows that he cares about his children and he can count on a lot of attention from women! You probably know the images or of male pop stars and movie stars casually walking on the street or in the garden with their baby in a baby carrier. Even our own king William Alexander was not afraid to get his pictures taken with one of his princesses in a baby carrier. I’ve never seen a member of another royal family do this!

From tough back carriers to soft carrying slings

I think BabyBjörn was one of the first brands that put fathers with a baby in a baby carrier in a sensitive spot. You know how it goes, an attractive, tough father in a beautiful Swedish landscape with lots of green and a lake in the background. The pictures seemed to say, go out with your baby, into the open air! Soon, other brands followed with pictures of carrying dads like ERGObaby, Elite Cruiser and Stokke. Perhaps these brands take these photos with dads from a commercial point of view. To tempt mothers to buy one for themselves or for their partners? Over the years, the pictures of fathers with tough baby carriers changed to soft images, there are now even pictures of fathers with babies in slings, such as those of Babylonia. Nobody would have dared to think that 15 years ago!

The fathers point of view

What reasons do the fathers themselves provide? We previously posted a request on our Facebook BabyStuf.nl. Now, our website is mostly being visited by expectant and new mothers, but all our fans bothered to question their partner to submit, thanks for that! Below is a sampling of the responses: “We have a baby carrier for bicycle trips because our youngest daughter, three months old, can otherwise not come with us.” Another male user said: “It’s purely practical, in a busy city it is easier to walk around with a baby carrier than with a stroller! “Another man said that he prefers it to a stroller because the baby is on eye level, so he doesn’t have to look down all the time with his baby. Another man says, “I loved to wear my son in the baby carrier. It feels very safe, snug and warm, and especially in the busy cities or during a short walk with our dog it is very practical. And besides this, it also looks cool! ” And some very social responses: some fathers noted that they also use a baby carrier to help their partner out. However, they also feel that some of the straps are not made for the manly torso’s!

Lapin & Me room lights

lapin and me babytrendwatcherWhether it is for the living room or your child’s bedroom, I find lamps one of the hardest things to buy. But they still are very important for the design of your child’s bedroom! I have searched everywhere for a couple of beautiful children’s lamps. But besides the standard Ikea moon and star and a wooden pendant in the shape of a helicopter I did not find anything. I was so desperate, that I took my fretsaw and just got to work. I made an enlargement from a key element on the wallpaper, because I had found beautiful wallpaper. Fortunately, I have the creative talent of my mother and then you can get a whole lot of work done, Creative Carola! The lamp has hung above my child’s cradle for years until the time had passed, it was too ‘baby’, not appealing for a growing toddler.

However, I would like to rearrange a nursery with the current products available. For example, consider these lights of the English company Lapin & me that we saw at the trade show ‘Kleine Fabriek’, available in white, pink, green, blue and yellow. Nice to know: they are hand painted and finished. And for the fans, there are also Lapin music boxes, pillows and other accessories available on the market. For the same retro feel, here is an image of the sisters Woodland Dolls. They were first made ​​by a Japanese company in the 70s as a tiny figure. After some negotiation with the manufacturer, these toys are made ​​exclusively for Lapin & me.woodland doll lapin and me babytrendwatcher

The importance of eye contact with babies

babytrendwatcher  oogcontact baby riemersmaDr. Suzanne Zeedyk has been doing 25 years of scientific research and studies about the innate ability of babies to communicate with parents from the very beginning. A science that designers of baby products should know before they develop baby products, says Zeedyk. Zeedyk is fascinated by the emotional development of a child’s very first years and how this affects the long term. It is about the emotional security, confidence and trust in others and relationships. To directly link this to prams and buggy’s: ‘Neuroscience of strollers and buggy’s, how buggy’s shape brains and how this leads to the science of designing for baby’s’, said Zeedyk. Us humans are evolutionary products and we descended from the apes, she says. When wearing a baby as a parent your hands are tied, causing designers and manufacturers to come up with ways to carry and transporting your baby whilst keeping your hands free. Think of the slings, cradle boards thought of by the Indians and later baby carriers, strollers and buggies were introduced. These are all solutions for evolutionary problems.

Infants are naturally social beings, she says, and therefore are capable to communicate from the moment that they are born. A newborn baby succeeds 10 minutes after being born in impersonating a father or mother’s facial impression. Babies also have the ability to imitate hand movements. Babies feel comfortable when they are being communicated with. Oxytocin is produced, a hormone which stimulates confidence and trust. They communicate by eye contact, touching and voice. If there is too little communication with the baby, an increase in cortisol, a stress hormone, is shown. Carrying a baby is more than just moving from A to B! The brain of a baby grows at an explosive rate between zero and three years, but later decreases to a slower rate. In these first years, brain connections are made on an extremely high rate. This first phase is crucial for a child’s development and we need designers of prams, strollers and carriers to keep this in mind, states Zeedyk. Studies show that you cannot start early enough with communicating back and forth. In a particular study, a women daily reads the book ‘Cat in the Hat ” out loud. After birth, the baby recognized the sound and rhythm of the storytelling, measurable by the babies sucking speed on an electric nipple. Other studies show images in which the mother frequently talks to her baby and her baby reacts and communicates back, until the mother stops talking and denies any form of communication. The baby is trying to communicate with its mother, but when that fails, it turns its head away in disappointment. According to Zeedyk, you are able to see after only 16 months that a lack of communication leads to language delay. At the age of three you can even see whether the child will become aggressive or not. This lecture was an eye opener for me! And it’s good to know that eye contact and communication with your baby, especially in the initial phase of his or her life, whether you wear your baby in a baby carrier or transport him or her in a stroller, buggy or car seat, is very important!

This blog has previously been published in our tradejournal BabyWereld and on the consumersite BabyStuf.nl but as it is of great importance, I republish this on my babytrendwatcherblog.

Striped breastfeeding

babytrendwatcher boobI am not that much of a fan of shirts that are heavily printed, but a striped shirt is something I do have! This might be because I have been to Brittany in France many times when I was young, walking down the many shores with my little sister. We were always looking for tiny aquariums that were left behind by the waves between the big rocks at the edges of the shore, looking for tiny fish, clams and anemones. I still have some good memories of that time. In Brittany, the Breton stripes will always be trendy and you will find them in most of the stores and on most of the markets. They originated from a design for French sea-men, if you would fall off the ship, you could be located more easily. Fashion icon Coco Chanel turned this into a popular fashion item. Big movie celebrities such as Audrey Hepburn, Jackie O, Birgitte Bardot and Marilyn Monroe have been captured on camera or tape in the Breton stripes. Jean Paul Gaultier is a big fan of this classic design as well, as many will know. Recently, the Swedish brand Boob, introduced its new breastfeeding method (shirt, tunic and summerdress) in which this design is presented in black and white, blue and white or red and white. The clever tailoring allows you to feed your child in a modest way. However, this set of breastfeeding clothes seems perfect to wear after the breastfeeding period!

 

Wooden toy with fabric

gotoy babytrendwatcherGotoy is a new toy brand owned by Danish designer Gert Olsen. He used to work as a designer for Lego Duplo and Brio. We are talking about someone who knows what children like and want to play with, he is a professional. Gotoy stacking wood is specially designed and produced for babies, toddlers and their parents. It is a new collection that consists of perfectly finished wooden figures and fabric accessories. All figures and elements can be stacked and combined, so they can build their own little friends. Personally, I believe that the combination of wood and fabric is a very creative idea and by using the different textures, children can greatly develop their sense of touch. Another bonus: all parts are easily picked up and stacked by small hands. Want to learn more about the fantasy-world of Gotoy and it’s potential? Take a look at this adorable video: